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The end of last year was a challenging one. With new strains of the COVID-19 virus on the rise, many homes were affected during the …

New Year, New Me, right? Or is it a New Year, Old Me? Depending on your journey, these questions can feel different because it gives …

More and more of us are looking for work-life balance. The problem is that, in our search for the elusive work-life balance, our stress and …
Continue reading “Coach Thought of the Week: Work-Life Balance”

Imagine if one day you woke up and your life had changed. You are happy with your life and who you have become. You are …

As a Coach and Recruiter, one of the common mistakes I see is jumpy clients. Jumpy because these employees move on to another employer after …

With the start of a New Year, many of us take the time to set goals and resolutions on how we can be better and …

How often have you decided you would start a new lifestyle on Monday, at the beginning of the month, or on January 1st? Most do …

We’re officially saying goodbye to 2021 and are ready to ring in the new year. As most of you can probably relate, I’ve had a …

The holidays are the perfect time to reflect on our relationships, establish goals for connecting with our family, and set the groundwork for those relationships …

Self-Reflection might sound easy to do, but it’s the most challenging thing we can do. It’s hard to focus on our thoughts and feelings about …

As we come to the end of another year, it is beneficial to review the recent past. Personally, I am better off at the end …

The Hustle Culture is about being aggressive, being forceful, being a slayer, pushing forward, working long hours; and putting ourselves last. Hustling without rest and …

By Alejandra Boker, MBA, RD, IFNCP Let’s be honest, the two things that people enjoy most during the holidays are spending time with family and eating …

Thanksgiving is my favorite time of year. It’s a reminder to pause and say thank you before the shopping and the parties. It’s a reminder …

Gratitude is the quality of being thankful. It consists of a readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness. Simple concept, right? Yet, it …

Creating boundaries – or not creating them. There is no right or wrong answer. We’re all different. The question is: Do we need to …

Ten years ago this month, I was lucky enough to start working at Coral Gables Counseling Center (CGCC) — and I’ve never looked back. I …

The month of November is traditionally a time of Thanksgiving. During this time, we often focus on reflection and gratitude. Recognizing and reflecting on gratitude …

By Alejandra Boker, MBA, RD, IFNCP Women’s health is multifaceted. But one of the main issues consistently brought up by many women is the struggle …
Continue reading “Should we blame weight gain on menopause?”

The other day I was really looking at myself in the mirror while I was getting dressed. I was looking at my body and scars …

Trust your gut. I love this phrase, but some women take it too far in one direction or the other. I’ve had some patients “trust …

By: Tiffany N. Perez, RMHC We live in an era of information overload. We are invested in social media platforms like Pinterest, Instagram, Facebook, and …

Here I am, writing about procrastination in my pajamas at the last minute when I should’ve been wilding out at a fall festival because I …

Self-improvement. When I talk about this idea (a multi-million dollar industry of how to do and be better), I make sure others understand they are …

Motivation is Bullsh*t. Bold statement, I know, but stay with me for a second. Telling ourselves that the reason for not doing things is lack …

I think we can all agree that the topic of self-improvement is a broad one. In such a complicated time in our world, and with …

Sometimes I set out to rest, relax, recharge. But I end up on my phone. On social media. I do this, I think because I …

Summer is over. Well, at least Summer, as in those few months during which “the Purge” happens because the children :coughs: terrors are set loose …

Most of us know what back to school means. Some of us went back to school as kids. Some of us had kids that went …

Summer is coming to an end. School is right around the corner, as students will be going back to in-person learning. This past year school …

Our kids’ behavior is the difference between a great day and a “kill me now” day. It can be overwhelming when your kids misbehave more …

By Katheryne Puentes, LMHC Parenting is NOT an easy job. Being a parent involves 100% attention to how they interact with their children and their …

As a parent of three 30+-year-olds, I want to offer that parenting never ends. Parents of newborns and toddlers are rolling their eyes right about …
Continue reading “Purposeful Parenting from an Empty Nester”

When I learned this month’s blog theme is “Purposeful Parenting,” I thought I could offer a slightly unique perspective: that of a first-time newborn parent. …

I celebrate you. I celebrate all the men in the world. Men who are loyal, kind, and true. Men who have protected us and loved …

Low testosterone is one of the most overlooked causes of depression and other serious mood disorders in males. So much so that when I see …
Continue reading “Let’s talk about Low-T, but really, let’s talk about it.”

Here we are at some point of the pandemic, not knowing if it’s the middle, the end, or the new norm. It’s no wonder stress levels …

BY KATHERYNE PUENTES, LMHC What is the true meaning of mental health, and why are so many individuals scared to visit a therapist? With the …

Self-talk is the dialogue inside your head. It is your inner voice that tells you what you can and cannot do. It is your inner …
Continue reading “Who do I think I’m talking to like that? ME?”

I had the opportunity to advise a colleague on how to terminate therapy for one of her clients. This particular case was sensitive and complex. …
Continue reading “Dealing With Client Termination in Therapy”

Eli Bravo https://www.linkedin.com/in/elibravooficial/ As if it was a miracle pill or a magic potion, it is common in books, webinars, and social media posts the …
Continue reading “Living in the Present for a Better Future”

6:30 AM. I am sitting in front of the candle and trying to let the thoughts pass so I can be in the present moment. …

What comes to mind when you think of health? For most, it’s the yearly visit to your primary doctor, gynecologist, or dentist. What comes to …

By Lucia Fernandez, Director, LMFT and Natalie Ortega, Attorney and Teacher My friend, Natalie Ortega, and I have had many conversations on spirituality. She …
Continue reading “Notes to Self: Two Books Sounding Off Loudly”

Do you aspire to be “mindful” tangibly and practically? Ask yourself these four questions. It will give you a well-grounded approach to your day: 1) …

Creating an awareness of the present moment is one of the basic principles of mindfulness and mindful living. We tend to live our lives and …

When I hear the word “mindful,” I immediately think of mindfulness — the practice of being present and being aware by sitting still and focusing …

No, I’m not talking about making your hot co-worker or classmate fall in love with you. I’m talking about making the MOST special person in …
Continue reading “How To Make That Special Someone, Fall In Love With You”

BY: MERIEM OUCHAKA, LMHC Self-love is often overlooked. We assume it’s a given. Do you love, like, and respect yourself? What is the meaning of …

Almost a year into the pandemic and those of us who are healthy and have survived it, are so very blessed. So many have passed …

Many times I discuss with clients developing a self-care routine. You would be surprised how many people have difficulty with this. When describing themselves or …

I’ve always liked working with the younger population (teens and 20s), but never quite knew why. Maybe it’s because I can relate to them pretty …
Continue reading “Teens and 20s – A Time for Self-Improvement”

Today we come together as it’s been done since the first inauguration when President George Washington took the first oath in April 1789. Even after …

2020 was a year like no other. Many things happened in 2020. For some, it brought sorrow and loss – disappointment and sadness. For others, …

Why no whining? These times have been sad, scary, hard, and uncertain. They’ve been quiet and loud and new and somehow…same ‘ole same ‘ole. Certainly, …

I love submitting our last blog of the year. If I have not yet done so, it forces me to stop and reflect. Before I …

2020 is the year that will be known as the year of the Pandemic and THE election. A year of the unknown. A year of …

November is easily one of my favorite months of the year. I love that it’s sandwiched between Halloween and Christmas (celebrated in my family). It …

Gratitude and self-appreciation are not qualities that come naturally to the majority of us. In therapy, we often recommend incorporating a gratitude practice into a …
Continue reading “Don’t Downplay Your Strengths: Here Are 5 Reasons Why”

As a Mental Health Counselor, I’m often on the receiving end of questions such as, “How do you listen to people’s problems all day and …

I am a millennial psychiatrist. I grew up in the era of smartphones filled with apps that have helped me stay connected all hours of …
Continue reading “Psychiatrist Unfiltered: 5 Things Learned Deleting Social Media”

So, this month’s topic is women’s health. Naturally, I thought, what better way to be able to identify easy health-improving habits for women while still …

This is the only time of year I pause to reflect on my diagnosis 3 years ago – Invasive Ductal Carcinoma – or breast cancer. …
Continue reading “2020 Reflection of a Breast Cancer Survivor”

I overheard a teacher say to my daughter on virtual school, “Kids, have your moms upload that later.” Moms. Not parents. Not dads or caretakers. …

A few years ago I treated a client with Complex PTSD. She had suffered for the majority of her childhood from physical, psychological, and emotional …

I consider myself to be an eternally active learner and a self-improvement/personal growth enthusiast. It’s important to be open to constant learning about yourself, others, …
Continue reading “10 Practical Ways to Stay Motivated on Your Self-Improvement Journey”

When you hear “self-improvement,” what comes to mind? Self-improvement can mean so many different things for each of us. One thing all definitions should have in common is “the …
Continue reading “Don’t Leave “Self” Out of Self-Improvement”

To me, September has always marked the beginning of a new year, even more so than January. Maybe it’s because it signals the end of …

By Remy Gordon, LCSW What does self-improvement mean to you? By definition, self-improvement is “the improvement of one’s knowledge, status, or character by one’s own efforts”. …

Many of us have anxiety levels that are higher than usual on any given day in 2020. Things aren’t where we’d want them to be. …
Continue reading “You Need To Calm Down. You’re Being Too Loud”

I have to admit, I love memes and get a lot of enjoyment from them. Pro-therapy memes? Even better! (By the way, I love that …

By Remy Gordon, LCSW How do we prepare to return back to school when we aren’t really going back to the classroom physically? We are …

The end of summer is here and we are heading into round two of virtual learning. The adjustment of virtual learning has been difficult for …

Back to school. A phrase, I’m sure, makes almost every parent shudder these days. These last few weeks, or better yet, months, have been a …

2020 – the year of Clarity and Vision…but really? On January 1, 2020, I declared my word of the year: Purpose. Everything I was doing …

It seems that every time we turn on the TV or listen to the news, all we hear is negative activities going on in the …

Erika Fernandez De Castro A little over a year ago, I attended a training on the topic of Infant Mental Health. Prior to the training, …
Continue reading “Infant Mental Health – It Starts on Day 1”

As the world begins to move into this “new normal” post-COVID 19 quarantine world – I cannot help but wonder what our lives and realities …

The world is a very uncertain place right now. There is less predictability about basic life issues such as employment, education, food, and shelter. It is a …

I remember almost four years ago, I was making the decision on leaving an agency that I was involved with for over 15-years. I had …
Continue reading “Creating Goals and the Fear of Falling Down”

I’m a guy’s guy. A Modern Man’s – Man. Rough around the edges, not afraid to get dirty, a fan of grit, and hard work. …

Congratulations! You made it to the end of May, AKA Mental Health Awareness Month. By now I’m sure you’ve been inundated with plenty of words …

When thinking about mental health, many automatically think of the negative aspects of mental health. The association of “mental health” with serious mental health …
Continue reading “Silencing Negative Bias – Gaining Positive Outlook”

Can you believe it? It’s finally May. We have all been through a lot with the recent COVID-19 situation. One of the topics in the …
Continue reading “I’m Fine, It’s Fine, This is Fine…But Do You Know a Good Therapist?”

If you’ve never heard the term “joyful movement,” that’s okay. Movement is another way of describing a physical activity or what one would typically refer …

Recommendations for working parents with children on virtual education Virtual learning is new for all of us including myself. Like many of you, I am …

Our current situation is tough. There is suffering, fear, uncertainty and so many challenging situations for a lot of people. So, with all that, are …

Yes, we’re in the middle of a pandemic. Yes, we’re now teachers in addition to parents. Yes, we’re in confined quarters. Yes, we’re unemployed. Yes, …

I woke up this morning feeling much better than I did yesterday. I felt a new sense of relief and control. These feelings elude me …
Continue reading “How to Prevent Anxiety in the Time of Corona”

I just started with a new therapist. I’m not in crisis. I’m high functioning and successful (depending on who you ask). But I like to …
Continue reading “Prevention Mental Health for a Better Future”

These are strange times. The uncertainty is creating stress and fear. For some, there are many strong reactions and emotions. If this is you, here …

I was thinking today of how many times I’ve wanted to have some time to just be home: to clean out my closets, organize my …

We live in a time where our children are more exposed to information channels than ever before. With the anxiety and panic created by the …

Let’s be smart Let’s be mindful Let’s be calm. Breathe. As we navigate through these unchartered waters with COVID-19, our anxiety is escalating and the …

Licensed Mental Health Counselor With Valentine’s Day coming up and heart garlands decorating the office, I can’t help but reflect on love and relationships. I …

Divorce Coach All of a sudden, I wake up, and here we are, living in the year 2020. Wow. I don’t know why but it …

Certified EMDR Therapist Happy New Year! How many times are we all going to hear and say that? Worse yet — How many New Years’ …

Life and Wellness Coach On the first day of the year I received an email from Dave and Rachel Hollis with the subject line “New …

Life and Wellness Coach At the end of every year, I plan and prepare for entering and exiting my liminal space. This year, I’ve been …

I can’t tell you how many times I heard someone say “I can’t wait for 2018 to be over” or the amount of memes I …
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