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Getting What You Want

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, April 05, 2024

There are two steps to getting what you want: 1) Knowing what you want; and 2) Taking intentional steps to get it Both are about …

Embracing Imperfection

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, March 01, 2024

In a world fixated on flawlessness, the pursuit of perfection can feel like an endless race with no finish line in sight. Society and social …

Life is a Roller Coaster

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, February 13, 2024

In a few days, I will turn 50. Many people have been asking me how it feels to turn the big 5-0; honestly, I’m not …

True Self-Love

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 07, 2024

Yes, self love is gratitude journals, and bubble baths…face masks and lazy Saturdays. It’s also treat yourself days and hanging with the guys/gals. But let’s …

Brushstrokes of Time – The Masterpiece of a Life Lived

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 24, 2024

As I was getting dressed yesterday, I saw a scar on my body, then another, then another, and another.  And it made me think of …

Embracing a Fresh Start: Successfully Navigating a Career Change in 2024

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 17, 2024

Welcome to a brand-new year filled with endless possibilities! If you’re considering a career change, now is the perfect time to embrace a fresh start …

Embrace Your 2024 Journey

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 10, 2024

By Jean Crawford, Certified Life Coach Ah, the new year – sparkly confetti, a time for fresh beginnings, a fresh canvas, and the undeniable pressure …

2024 – Open to Change BUT Do You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, January 02, 2024

Whether 2024 slid in or came in with a bang, with the New Year we have a New Journey. We have a chance to repeat …

Holidays, Family and Tradition

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 20, 2023

The holidays, the end of the calendar year, this all brings on a feeling of reflection. Looking back, taking stock. The rituals of wrapping up …

Reflecting on Grudges, Resentments, Guilts and Regrets

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, December 07, 2023

As I sit here reflecting on this past year, I feel a heaviness instead of my usual end of year reflection of excitement for the …

Every Candle Tells a Story

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 29, 2023

Today is my 65th birthday. The past 65 years have been full of both lessons and milestones. A friend of mine gave me a birthday …

The Physiology of Gratitude

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Saturday, November 18, 2023

By Natalie Peña, Mental Health Counselor, Practicum Intern Practicing gratitude does not come naturally for everyone. Many people struggle to be grateful for countless reasons. …

Glimmers of Gratefulness: Embracing the Small Joys

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, November 17, 2023

A couple of weeks ago, I wrote a blog about being more present in your life by not falling into searching for the elusive work-life …

The Season of Gratitude: A Practical Guide to Feeling More Grateful

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 08, 2023

By Pan He, Certified Life Coach It’s November, and Thanksgiving is coming up in the United States. Families and friends gather to celebrate and give …

Finding Gratefulness by Breaking Free of the Work-Life Balance Trap

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 01, 2023

To stand in gratefulness it’s important to first be present. But what happens if life gets in the way of us being present? What happens …

5 Ways to Optimize Your (Mental) Health During Pregnancy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 25, 2023

By Natalie Peña, Mental Health Counselor, Practicum Intern Prenatal care tends to focus on what’s best for the baby. Books, doctors, and the internet often …

Birth Control: Do the Benefits Outweigh the Risks?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 18, 2023

Birth control was first introduced in the early 1970’s which forever changed the world as we know it. It provided women with the first opportunity …

Prioritize Your Mental Health: Make an Appointment… with Yourself!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 04, 2023

Want better mental health? You have to make an appointment. But not with me or a professional, with yourself! If you have an appointment with …

Back to School and a Routine

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, August 14, 2023

As the summer comes to an end and the back-to-school season approaches, a whirlwind of emotions is stirred that accompanies the return to both the …

Back to School – Should I or Shouldn’t I?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Sunday, August 13, 2023

As someone who went back to school in my 40’s, 50’s and then again in my 60’s – this has been a question I’ve asked …

Time Flies: Time Management Hacks for Heading Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, August 03, 2023

By Laurel Kilpatrick, M.D., Certified Life Coach Is it really time to start thinking about going back to school? It seems like it was just …

What is Childhood Emotional Neglect?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 19, 2023

By Alli Griffiths, Mental Health Counselor, Practicum First, emotional neglect is not emotional abuse. Abuse intends to harm whereas emotional neglect is usually unintentional. Oftentimes, …

The Importance of Self-Care for Parents

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 12, 2023

Parenting is one of life’s greatest joys; however, it is very demanding and exhausting.  The moment you become a parent, your focus turns to take …

Redefining Masculinity: Male Emotional Advocacy Takes Center Stage

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 28, 2023

In a world where societal expectations have traditionally dictated that men must be strong, stoic, and unemotional, there is a growing movement that seeks to …

Men’s Health and Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 14, 2023

By Angela Cruz Serrano, MFT and MHC Intern Mental health is a topic that has been receiving increased attention in recent years. While the conversation …

Men and Life Balance

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 07, 2023

As I was sitting in front of the computer, not sure what to write about on Men’s Health, I received this picture from my son.  …

Forced to Mature – Growing up with an ADHD sibling

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 31, 2023

By: High School Student – her college essay We all go through the natural and unavoidable process of growing up. However, for some of us, …

Eating to Support Your Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 24, 2023

By Alli Griffiths, Mental Health Counselor, Practicum You have probably heard the age-old adage, ‘you are what you eat.’ This phrase used to annoy me. …

Mental Health v. Tech Advances

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 17, 2023

By Maria Silvia Paoli, Certified Life Coach In recent years, numerous studies have been conducted exploring technology’s effects on mental health. The findings of these studies have …

Am I just sad or am I clinically depressed?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 03, 2023

Lisa is a 55-year-old, happily married retired woman who lives with her husband in a house in Coconut Grove. All her children are adults and …

Autism Awareness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 26, 2023

By Christian Mendez, Board-Certified Behavior Analyst Just last month the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) updated the incidence of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) in 8-year-old children …

Coach Thought of the Week: Branding Your Identity

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, April 24, 2023

Your Branding is Your Identity When we think “branding” most of us think businesses and corporations. My definition of branding is when businesses and corporations …

Prioritize Your Emotional Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 19, 2023

By Maria Silvia Paoli, Certified Life Coach Emotional health is a crucial aspect of overall well-being. It refers to an individual’s ability to understand and …

Coach Thought of the Week: Busy v. Soo…Busy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, April 17, 2023

Yes, sometimes we’re busy; sometimes we’re very busy; and sometimes we’re not. Being busy is a good thing.  Regardless of whether you own your business …

Taking Care of Your Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, April 11, 2023

Alli Griffiths, Mental Health Counselor, RI Do you see your doctor annually for a routine checkup? Or do you wait until you have a problem …

Helping Your Teen Prevent High School Burnout

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 05, 2023

During this time of the school year, high school seniors are enthusiastically announcing their post high school plans. Each year of high school presents a …

Coach Thought of the Week: Limiting Beliefs and Coaching

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, April 03, 2023

By Maria Silvia Paoli, Certified Life Coach Beliefs get ingrained in our thoughts – usually after a personal significant experience. It can be an everyday …

Mindfulness and Personal Growth

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, March 16, 2023

By Maria Silvia Paoli, Certified Life Coach Mindfulness is defined as “a basic human ability to be fully present, in a state of awareness and …

Living Mindfully Today

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 07, 2023

By Angela Cruz Serrano, MFT and MHC Intern We are always thinking about our next move, our next chapter in life, our next everything and …

Less Electronics, More Mindfulness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, February 28, 2023

It’s Friday night.  You’re out to dinner with your family: a ritual you look forward to throughout the week.  Although you’re all together, you feel …

Girl Love

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 22, 2023

As I write this last blog for the month of February on the topic of “Love for Yourself and Others,” I thought I would close …

Heartbreak Survival Guide

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, February 14, 2023

“This just isn’t working for me.” “I’ve been seeing someone else.” “It’s not you, it’s me.” We have all heard either these or a combination …

Growth in a Relationship

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, February 09, 2023

Can you grow as an individual while in a relationship? Well, that all depends. Does your partner give space for that growth? Do they push …

Stop Having the Relationshits!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, February 03, 2023

There are always challenges we face within the trenches of a long-term relationship. Some conflicts include, financial struggles, parenting stressors, health issues, and sexual issues …

Coach Thought of the Week: Motivation

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, January 24, 2023

We get motivational quotes all the time. We see them everywhere. We use them to inspire us to action. In Verywell Mind they describe motivation …

Coach Thought of the Week: Comparing

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, January 16, 2023

I love many of Dr. Seuss’ quotes, but my very favorite is: Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one …

Coach Thought of the Week: Jump In

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, January 09, 2023

I was talking with a friend the other day.  I hadn’t seen her in a while, so we spent time catching up. One of the …

Family Reflections

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, December 27, 2022

By: Angelica Cruz-Serrano, MFT and MHC Intern For some, the Holidays may symbolize a time that brings family and friends together; a time when people …

Coach Thought of the Week: Courage

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, December 27, 2022

Nine years ago, I found my courage.  I left my full-time “secure” job and opened my private practice as a Life Coach. I found the …

Family Traditions

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 21, 2022

I heard a quote somewhere that traditions are just peer pressure from ghosts. Or, elder living family members, in many cases as well. So when …

On the Blog: Christmas Holidays and Immigrants

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 14, 2022

By Maria Silvia Paoli, Certified Life Coach I am a Venezuelan who immigrated due to the political and socioeconomic situation. I am also a coach …

Coach Thought of the Week: Opening up to Change and Possibilities

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, December 12, 2022

Yes, you may not have enough hours in a day. Yes, you may have too many deadlines. Yes, you may have too much work. But, …

How to Manage Holiday Stress

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 07, 2022

By: Alli Griffiths, MHC Intern Does this time of year stress you out? If so, you are not alone. Pause. Take a moment. Close your …

Coach Thought of the Week: Realistic Expectations

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, December 05, 2022

One of the reasons for stress and overwhelm comes from trying to keep up with our client’s deadlines. A client calls us wanting something by …

My Journey Around the Sun

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 30, 2022

Yesterday was my 64th birthday. It was a nice day. It was an ordinary day. It was a perfect day. I woke up with a …

Coach Thought of the Week: Creating Your Personal Brand – Not Just for the Business Owner

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 28, 2022

When a client comes in for career coaching, they’re always a little surprised when I ask them what their personal brand is. Yes – branding …

A Reflection

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 23, 2022

By Dara Teller, LCSW There are so many things to be grateful for, but often times we allow our stress and anxiety to consume us. …

Coach Thought of the Week: Getting Out of Your Own Way

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 21, 2022

Those who know me, know I love tennis! Earlier this year, I was coaching with a tennis pro when I decided I didn’t want to …

An Ordinary Day with Gratitude

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 14, 2022

It’s Monday morning. The alarm goes off. I stir, stretch out my limbs and take in a big, deep breath. I’m grateful for another day. …

Coach Thought of the Week: Happiness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 14, 2022

Happiness is the “state of just being happy.” But how do we just “be happy” when life is 50/50? 50% good and 50% bad. We’ve …

The Eulogy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 07, 2022

My daughters prepared the funeral mass for my ex-husband who passed away two months ago.  As a gift for my 3 kids and my stepdaughter, …

Coach Thought of the Week: Belief

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 07, 2022

If you believe in yourself, anything is possible! This is one of the positive affirmations circling in social media today. Yes, if we believe in …

Gratefulness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, November 03, 2022

By: Vanessa Molina, MFT, Intern Often times we find it difficult to focus on the positive things going on in our lives when there’s so …

Coach Thought of the Week: It’s Optional

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, September 19, 2022

We believe we HAVE to do this or that or SHOULD. But the truth is we can choose to NOT do so. We ALWAYS have …

Coach Thought of the Week: More on Boundaries

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, September 12, 2022

I have written on boundaries before, but this past week it has been a recurring theme for all my clients, so I thought it would …

Coach Thought of the Week: Bouncing Forward

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, August 29, 2022

Life happens because life is 50/50. We’re going to have both good and bad experiences. We’re going to have positive and negative thoughts and feelings. …

Let Go and Let God

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 24, 2022

Change is such a constant in our lives…whether we like it or not. Many years ago I decided to embrace change and look forward to …

College Bound Reflection

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 17, 2022

Remind yourself: A Reflection on Sending Your Teen Off to College August is here and the reality that your children are heading off to college …

Coach Thought of the Week: Life Balance

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, August 15, 2022

Many of my clients come in stressed because they can’t find their Work-Life Balance.  As much as they try, they can’t seem to get both …

Coach Thought of the Week: Manuals for Others

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, August 01, 2022

After eight years as a Life Coach, I recently completed a second Life Coach Certification.  This time with The Life Coach School. One of the …

Purposeful Parenting – One Year In

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 20, 2022

A year ago, I wrote a blog post for the same July monthly theme, “Purposeful Parenting.” https://www.coralgablescounseling.com/purposeful-parenting-as-a-new-mom/) At the time, I was a brand new mom …

Raising Emotionally Intelligent Beings

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, July 04, 2022

Recently, the topic of interest amongst my clients is parenting styles. More specifically, which of the four parenting styles – Authoritarian, Authoritative, Passive, and Neglectful …

“Is there anything more to life?” The Common Question

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 22, 2022

I am so happy to write this for Men’s Health Awareness. In my sessions with men, I have found many of them reach the point …

Are You Tired of Having the Relationshits…???

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 15, 2022

There are various benefits for men from being in a healthy relationship. Their well-being is positively influenced by healthy relationships not just emotionally, but physically …

Taking Care of Business: Men’s Mental Health Part 1

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 08, 2022

I initiated a brief survey of a small sample of men regarding their views on medical and mental health issues. I was surprised to find …

Coach Thought of the Week: Therapy v. Coaching

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, May 30, 2022

“Therapists are archeologists that dig into our past to help us understand the present; Coaches are architects that help us build our future once we …

Coach Thought of the Week: Change – Part 1

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, May 23, 2022

Are you looking for a change in your life? Life is made up of the following eight Pillars: Relationships/Friendship Finance Home Environment Career/Business Spirituality Health …

Give Yourself Some Grace

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 18, 2022

It’s Mental Health Awareness month!  And, although it’s nice to have a month dedicated to mental health, I’m happy to see there has been a …

Coach Thought of the Week: Leadership

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, May 16, 2022

“A boss has the title; A leader has the people.” Simon Sinek Being a leader is about Listening Respecting Acknowledging Acting Listening Really listening can be …

5 Reasons to Talk More About Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 11, 2022

By Victoria Carney-Paine, LCSW Mental health is my favorite thing to talk about. Ask me how I’m doing and I’ll tell you if I am …

Let’s Talk About Anxiety

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 04, 2022

The most commonly diagnosed mental health disorder in the U.S. is anxiety; and a close second is depression. Both disorders are misunderstood not only by …

Coach Thought of the Week: Time

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, April 26, 2022

“I don’t have enough hours in a day!” “I don’t have time!” “I’m too busy!” “I have too much work!” “I’m always so busy!” “I …

Mindful Eating

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 13, 2022

By Alejandra Boker, MBA, RD, IFNCP Mindfulness, or the state of being conscious and aware of something, isn’t always easy, especially when there are so many …

What to Watch Out for When Dating

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 06, 2022

Each relationship we experience throughout our lives allows us to learn something about ourselves and our community. We learn more about who we are our …

Pause. Assess. Evaluate.

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, March 14, 2022

As we reach the end of Q1 in 2022, it is time to assess how we are doing. Pull out the list of goals you …

Overcome Your Fears!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 09, 2022

By Dara Teller, RCSW “Fear is the most subtle and destructive of all human diseases. Ladies and gentleman, fear kills dreams. Fear kills hope. Fear …

Mindful Moments

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 01, 2022

Here is a simple script for mindful moments. Let’s break it down. Notice your thoughts. “I’m sitting on a soft, blue chair. I like this …

Self Acceptance > Self Esteem

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 23, 2022

One of the few beneficial byproducts of this pandemic is our focus on good mental health. As a mental health professional, I appreciate this greatly. …

Coach Thought of the Week: Self-Labeling

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, February 21, 2022

As humans, we label ourselves because it’s easier for our brain when we categorize and put things into buckets.  Sometimes these labels inspire us.  But …

What is Love?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 16, 2022

Love doesn’t start with loving others before us. It begins with loving ourselves first, to know how to love another. We create a strong foundation …

Coach Thought of the Week: Doing the Uncomfortable

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, February 14, 2022

Last week I watched my 2-year-old grandson, James, shooting hoops into his Little Tikes basketball hoop repeatedly as he missed over and over again. His …

Reflecting on Groundhog Day

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 09, 2022

Groundhog Day last week reminded me how as adults, we can fall into a life that feels repetitive.  We wake up, go through our routines, …

Coach Thought of the Week: Multitasking

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, February 07, 2022

As I was thinking of this week’s thought of the week, I decided to dig into a problem I tend to have on the regular …

Stop Distracting Yourself From Living

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 02, 2022

The end of last year was a challenging one. With new strains of the COVID-19 virus on the rise, many homes were affected during the …

Moving Forward in the New Year

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 26, 2022

New Year, New Me, right? Or is it a New Year, Old Me? Depending on your journey, these questions can feel different because it gives …

Coach Thought of the Week: Work-Life Balance

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, January 24, 2022

More and more of us are looking for work-life balance.  The problem is that, in our search for the elusive work-life balance, our stress and …

Live in Alignment With Your Vision

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 19, 2022

Imagine if one day you woke up and your life had changed. You are happy with your life and who you have become. You are …

Coach Thought of the Week: Job Jumpiness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, January 18, 2022

As a Coach and Recruiter, one of the common mistakes I see is jumpy clients. Jumpy because these employees move on to another employer after …

Journey into 2022

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 05, 2022

With the start of a New Year, many of us take the time to set goals and resolutions on how we can be better and …

Coach Thought of the Week: Stay Focused

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, January 03, 2022

How often have you decided you would start a new lifestyle on Monday, at the beginning of the month, or on January 1st? Most do …

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