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Introvert, Extrovert, or Both? Understanding Your Child

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 09, 2025

Throughout my years as a therapist, parents have come to me with many different challenges their children are facing. One of the most common concerns …

🌟🛣️Where We’ve Been, Where We’re Headed…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, December 31, 2024

As the calendar turns to a new year, there’s a natural pause—a moment to breathe, reflect, and reset. The past year holds stories of triumph, …

With Gratitude to our Children

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 18, 2024

Being a mom is one of life’s greatest blessings and, simultaneously, one of its greatest responsibilities. As mothers, we step into this role with hopes, …

Purposeful Parenting is Relational Parenting

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 31, 2024

By Bianca Gabay, National Certified Counselor The funny thing about parenting is that, despite all good intentions, a clear plan, and the surplus of resources …

How to Improve Your Parent-Child Relationship

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 03, 2024

As a parent, your relationship with your child is one of the most important in your life.  A strong and healthy relationship between parents and …

Time Flies: Time Management Hacks for Heading Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, August 03, 2023

By Laurel Kilpatrick, M.D., Certified Life Coach Is it really time to start thinking about going back to school? It seems like it was just …

Mom You Did the Best You Could

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, July 24, 2023

The other day my sister and I were spending time with our adult daughters relaxing and hanging out in the pool.  They were talking about …

The Importance of Self-Care for Parents

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 12, 2023

Parenting is one of life’s greatest joys; however, it is very demanding and exhausting.  The moment you become a parent, your focus turns to take …

Autism Awareness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 26, 2023

By Christian Mendez, Board-Certified Behavior Analyst Just last month the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) updated the incidence of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) in 8-year-old children …

Gratefulness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, November 03, 2022

By: Vanessa Molina, MFT, Intern Often times we find it difficult to focus on the positive things going on in our lives when there’s so …

Purposeful Parenting – One Year In

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 20, 2022

A year ago, I wrote a blog post for the same July monthly theme, “Purposeful Parenting.” https://www.coralgablescounseling.com/purposeful-parenting-as-a-new-mom/) At the time, I was a brand new mom …

5 Reasons to Talk More About Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 11, 2022

By Victoria Carney-Paine, LCSW Mental health is my favorite thing to talk about. Ask me how I’m doing and I’ll tell you if I am …

Creating Gratitude

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 17, 2021

Gratitude is the quality of being thankful. It consists of a readiness to show appreciation for and to return kindness. Simple concept, right? Yet, it …

Going Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 04, 2021

Summer is coming to an end. School is right around the corner, as students will be going back to in-person learning. This past year school …

What I Do To Help My Kids Behave

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 28, 2021

Our kids’ behavior is the difference between a great day and a “kill me now” day. It can be overwhelming when your kids misbehave more …

Parenting

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 21, 2021

By Katheryne Puentes, LMHC Parenting is NOT an easy job. Being a parent involves 100% attention to how they interact with their children and their …

Purposeful Parenting from an Empty Nester

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 14, 2021

As a parent of three 30+-year-olds, I want to offer that parenting never ends. Parents of newborns and toddlers are rolling their eyes right about …

Men…Beautiful, Beautiful Men!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 09, 2021

I celebrate you. I celebrate all the men in the world.  Men who are loyal, kind, and true. Men who have protected us and loved …

Let’s talk about Low-T, but really, let’s talk about it.

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 02, 2021

Low testosterone is one of the most overlooked causes of depression and other serious mood disorders in males. So much so that when I see …

Who do I think I’m talking to like that? ME?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 12, 2021

Self-talk is the dialogue inside your head. It is your inner voice that tells you what you can and cannot do. It is your inner …

Don’t Get in Your Own Way of Happiness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, April 20, 2021

6:30 AM. I am sitting in front of the candle and trying to let the thoughts pass so I can be in the present moment. …

Self Love

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 17, 2021

BY: MERIEM OUCHAKA, LMHC Self-love is often overlooked. We assume it’s a given. Do you love, like, and respect yourself? What is the meaning of …

Teens and 20s – A Time for Self-Improvement

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 27, 2021

I’ve always liked working with the younger population (teens and 20s), but never quite knew why. Maybe it’s because I can relate to them pretty …

Random Acts of Kindness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 18, 2020

November is easily one of my favorite months of the year. I love that it’s sandwiched between Halloween and Christmas (celebrated in my family). It …

Psychiatrist Unfiltered: 5 Things Learned Deleting Social Media

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 02, 2020

I am a millennial psychiatrist. I grew up in the era of smartphones filled with apps that have helped me stay connected all hours of …

Add This To Your Resume

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 14, 2020

I overheard a teacher say to my daughter on virtual school, “Kids, have your moms upload that later.” Moms. Not parents. Not dads or caretakers. …

Working with Emotional Support Animals

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 07, 2020

A few years ago I treated a client with Complex PTSD. She had suffered for the majority of her childhood from physical, psychological, and emotional …

10 Practical Ways to Stay Motivated on Your Self-Improvement Journey

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, September 29, 2020

I consider myself to be an eternally active learner and a self-improvement/personal growth enthusiast. It’s important to be open to constant learning about yourself, others, …

Don’t Leave “Self” Out of Self-Improvement

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 23, 2020

When you hear “self-improvement,” what comes to mind?  Self-improvement can mean so many different things for each of us.  One thing all definitions should have in common is “the …

Rosh Hashana 2020

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, September 18, 2020

To me, September has always marked the beginning of a new year, even more so than January. Maybe it’s because it signals the end of …

Self-Improvement and Homelessness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 16, 2020

By Remy Gordon, LCSW What does self-improvement mean to you? By definition, self-improvement is “the improvement of one’s knowledge, status, or character by one’s own efforts”. …

You Need To Calm Down. You’re Being Too Loud

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 09, 2020

Many of us have anxiety levels that are higher than usual on any given day in 2020. Things aren’t where we’d want them to be. …

Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 26, 2020

By Remy Gordon, LCSW How do we prepare to return back to school when we aren’t really going back to the classroom physically? We are …

Round Two of Virtual Learning

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 12, 2020

The end of summer is here and we are heading into round two of virtual learning. The adjustment of virtual learning has been difficult for …

Back to School in a Pandemic

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 05, 2020

Back to school. A phrase, I’m sure, makes almost every parent shudder these days. These last few weeks, or better yet, months, have been a …

Parenting Style From My House to Yours

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 22, 2020

How many of us struggle to be perfect parents?  There are so many levels of fear and uncertainty when it comes to raising little humans.  …

Teaching Respect to Children

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 15, 2020

It seems that every time we turn on the TV or listen to the news, all we hear is negative activities going on in the …

Infant Mental Health – It Starts on Day 1

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 01, 2020

Erika Fernandez De Castro A little over a year ago, I attended a training on the topic of Infant Mental Health. Prior to the training, …

Modern Man’s – Man

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 03, 2020

I’m a guy’s guy. A Modern Man’s – Man. Rough around the edges, not afraid to get dirty, a fan of grit, and hard work. …

Parents are Teachers During Covid

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 22, 2020

Recommendations for working parents with children on virtual education Virtual learning is new for all of us including myself. Like many of you, I am …

Talking to Your Child About COVID

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 17, 2020

We live in a time where our children are more exposed to information channels than ever before. With the anxiety and panic created by the …

A Letter From Our Director

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, March 16, 2020

Let’s be smart Let’s be mindful Let’s be calm. Breathe. As we navigate through these unchartered waters with COVID-19, our anxiety is escalating and the …

Mental Health Treatment Courts: An Alternative to the Traditional Criminal Court System

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 17, 2019

A large number of people arrested in South Florida have a serious mental illness (SMI; e.g., schizophrenia, major depression, bipolar disorder). The typical crimes charged …

Improving by 1%

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 10, 2019

Life and Heath Coach Most of us look forward to the future wondering what changes we can make today – to improve what is to …

Wellness is the Path to Prevention

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 03, 2019

Wellness is quite the buzz word. Thankfully, we are mindful of needing to improve our overall physical and emotional health to guard against our fast-paced …

Being in the Here and Now in Relationships

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 27, 2019

The benefits of practicing mindfulness impact every aspect of life including relationships. Relationships come with different levels of stress and anxiety. Practicing mindfulness can actually …

Can we Balance our Work and Personal Life?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 20, 2019

How can we balance our work and personal life? Is that even possible in today’s fast-paced world? It’s not always easy but we can start …

The Imperfect Journey of Living More Mindfully

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Saturday, March 09, 2019

Mindful living is such a wonderful, nice, wholesome idea. The problem that happens with this idea and with mindfulness in general, when you’re a perfectionist …

Mindful Living

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 06, 2019

Are you multitasking as you read this? Eating? Watching T.V.? On the toilet? Driving?! Then you’re not mindfully present because your mind is divided.  Mindful …

Loving Yourself and Others

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 27, 2019

Certified EMDR Therapist When I was asked to write this blog it gave me pause. I thought a lot of people don’t love themselves, and …

Go Girl, its Your Birthday

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 20, 2019

This year, like every year before it, I got to celebrate my birthday surrounded by the people I love. I smiled so hard all day …

My Own Best Ally

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 13, 2019

Licensed Mental Health Counselor Self-compassion. I know, I know, It sounds hokey. Just give me two minutes. Hear me out. I’m not saying be self-indulgent. …

"Love"

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 06, 2019

Just that word provoked a reaction in you. Assumptions and expectations popped up. (Maybe some resentments too.)How do you feel about love? Is love equated …

How Acupuncture Works for Anxiety Relief

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, January 29, 2019

Acupuncture is an ancient integrative medicine that involves stimulating certain points on the body with hair thin needles. It becomes a popular alternative treatment for …

Wrapping Your Head Around Weight Loss

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 23, 2019

Life and Health Coach Many of us are constantly worrying about our weight. This is true whether we’re at the “ideal” weight or not.If we’re …

Pretty Tough

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, January 15, 2019

I’ll bet you a shiny penny that one of your New Year’s resolutions is more self care? More “me time”?  Maybe it’s self improvement regarding …

thank u, next

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, January 07, 2019

I can’t tell you how many times I heard someone say “I can’t wait for 2018 to be over” or the amount of memes I …

2019 Here We Are – Bigger and Better Than 2018

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, December 31, 2018

Life and Heath Coach January has arrived and with it the beginning of a New Year. With a New Year comes confusion and stress with …

Existence, Waking Presence

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, December 20, 2018

These last couple of years, I’ve become incredibly grateful for the life I’ve had. This includes all my past and present experiences, along with every …

9 Holiday Tips to Keep the Kids Stress Free

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, December 18, 2018

It’s the most wonderful tiiiiiime of the year!… Right? For some of us the holidays bring on a great deal of anxiety due to a …

7 Tips for Coping with Holiday Stress

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 12, 2018

The Holiday Season doesn’t have to end with you pulling your hair out. Try these seven skills to create a more peaceful, joyful and mindful …

Coping with the Grinch

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 05, 2018

Licensed Mental Health Counselor The holidays can bring up a full range of emotions for many of us, from joy and excitement, to fear and …

Things I Know for Sure at 60 – I Wish I’d Known at 30

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 28, 2018

Life and Heath Coach Tomorrow’s my birthday. In celebration, I thought I would share lessons I wish my younger self would’ve known 30 years ago. …

No time for self-care? PLEASE make some!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 21, 2018

Sometimes we can feel as though there are not enough hours in the day to accomplish everything we need to get done. And it can …

Embrace the Positive in Life

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 14, 2018

Why is it so much easier to look at the bad stuff than it is to see the good stuff? Even when everything is going …

The 3 Most Important Skills for a Healthy, Joyful, and Inspired Life

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 07, 2018

From about the age of 4, I suffered from chronic asthma attacks. You never forget something like that. You know what else I never forgot? …

Journey to Me

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 31, 2018

Life and Heath Coach Today, October 31, 2018, marks the year since the beginning of my wellness journey after my September 2017 diagnoses of Invasive …

Path to Success for Bariatric Surgery

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, October 25, 2018

If you are considering on becoming a candidate for bariatric surgery, you will most likely be referred for an evaluation with a clinical psychologist. Although …

Women and Stress — Impact and Intervention

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 03, 2018

When I was thinking about writing this blog about women’s health, I thought of so many different issues impacting women. All of those issues always …

Depression – Changing the Stigma

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 26, 2018

Licensed Mental Health Counselor & Doctor in Psychology Depression is a real illness. The REALITY is that many people will not talk about nor share …

How to Thrive in a Life Without Addiction

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 19, 2018

Coming out of addiction is one of the hardest things anyone can do. Not only do you have to make it through withdrawal symptoms, but …

So you want to improve?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 12, 2018

So you want to improve? But do you…really? Our society is so obsessed with improvement and perfection – billions of dollars and myriad industries attest …

Embrace Your Body: 10 steps to better body image for larger bodied women

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 05, 2018

Licensed Mental Health Counselor Everyone knows that feeling. You wake up, look in the mirror, and don’t like what you see. Bad body image, its …

The Benefits of Music Education

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 29, 2018

Founder and Director Encore Academy of the Arts “A large number of scientific studies have found that music education improves our cognitive and brain functions, …

Back to School from a Grandmother’s Point of View – My Second Chance

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 22, 2018

Life and Heath Coach As we approached the start of a new school year, I was excited. Excited because it was time to spend time …

Helping Your Child with Divorce

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 15, 2018

Licensed Mental Health Counselor Back to school season can be stressful for some parents, but it is more complicated when you are going through a …

Back to School Challenge

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 08, 2018

Licensed Mental Health Counselor With school right around the corner, I’m sure many of you are beginning to think about the mental and physical prep …

Back to School for the Adult You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 01, 2018

Certified EMDR Therapist In my last blog, “Parenting your college age child,” I spoke about how to shift your parenting style when your child goes …

The Good, the Bad and the Ugly and How our Kids are Affected

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 25, 2018

At times it is easy to be negatively affected by insignificant stressors because we internalize and allow them to alter our moods. Often, we are …

The Art of Purposeful Parenting

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 11, 2018

PH. D., LMHC, CAP Licensed Mental Health Counselor & Doctor in Psychology Purposeful Parenting is significant because it gives parents the opportunity to create an …

Calling All Parents…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 04, 2018

Licensed Mental Health Counselor This blog goes out to all parents, single parents, grandparents, adoptive parents, foster parents, and guardians. We are dealing with a …

Discover Your Soul

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 27, 2018

The so-called “Man Code” is a collection of unspoken limiting rules that men often learn at a young age. Sometimes, in order to demonstrate their …

#Metoo Movement – the new feminism?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Life and Heath Coach As we have recently seen in the last six to seven months, the resurgence of the #Metoo Movement has dragged men …

Understanding a Man’s Process

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 13, 2018

As much as we want to equate men and women, the reality is we are different. Not only physically but mentally and socially. With those …

The Call to Adventure and Following your Bliss

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 06, 2018

Ten years ago, while on a men’s journey, I came across a quote by Joseph Campbell “follow your bliss”. Wow! I thought to myself. How …

Procrastination – To Be or Not to Be…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Saturday, June 02, 2018

Life and Heath Coach I’ve always not only looked down on myself as a procrastinator, but constantly called and described myself as one – as …

Major Depression in Adolescence: Suicide Prevention

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, May 25, 2018

Certified EMDR Therapist Suicide is the third leading cause of death among persons aged 10-14 and the second among persons aged 15-34 years. A precedent …

Mental Health Treatment

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 16, 2018

You don’t have to be “crazy” to seek mental health treatment.  This is a truth for two big reasons: We should all be focused on …

“Emotional Intelligence: A Key Element for Success in Children”

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, April 19, 2018

Licensed School Psychologist Many often associate success in life with high mental intelligence, proper schooling, and perhaps even a streak of good luck. Of course, …

What advice would you give to your 16-year-old self?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 11, 2018

Motivational Singer and Breakthrough Hypnosis This is a question that has run through my head for quite a long time. My adolescent years were filled …

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder — What Is It?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, April 05, 2018

Before I became a therapist I heard the term PTSD used and I connected it to the military or war veterans. Also, I didn’t really …

Peace Within No Matter What Throughout

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 28, 2018

The definition of peace is freedom from disturbance, quiet and tranquility. Can you think of the last time you had peace? Mindfulness is a practice …

Loving Yourself Leads to a Balanced, Happy Life

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 21, 2018

Today we’re getting so many messages from all avenues of the media reporting on mindful living and that we should “learn to love ourselves.” Sounds …

Slow Down, Tune in, Go with the Flow

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 14, 2018

You’ve had mindful moments. You’ve already practiced mindfulness. You just don’t realize it. And you don’t realize it because you were just BEING, and not …

Your Love is Different

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 21, 2018

  Love is a catch-all word that people use and we seem to think it means the same to you as it does to me. …

Love Yourself First

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 14, 2018

  It’s that time of the month when “love is in the air” and everyone seems to be talking about romance. Stress levels seem to …

Love: The Solution to Most of Your Problems

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, February 08, 2018

Over the years, I have been given the incredible opportunity to work and study one of life’s most elusive and complex topics: Love. Through my …

6 Keys to Loving Yourself and Others

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, February 01, 2018

Licensed Mental Health Counselor & Doctor in Psychology As we near the end of February, we celebrate love; the love of self and others. Love …

When Life Throws You Lemons…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Saturday, January 27, 2018

Life and Health Coach On September 25, 2017 at 8:00 A.M., while in my car, on my way to my 13 year old niece’s Junior …

You’re Amazing, Just the Way You Are

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, January 04, 2018

  What if you are good enough, as you are? What if your New Year’s Resolution doesn’t involve a sweeping life change? Maybe, your life …

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