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Prevention Now – Before It’s Too Much

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 08, 2026

By Izaskun Cruz, LMFT We often think prevention means avoiding pain. Like if we do things “right,” nothing difficult will happen. But life sometimes is …

New Year but Old You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 14, 2026

What if we changed the January saying? Maybe, instead of “New Year, New You” we should try “New Year, Old You?!” Maybe you shouldn’t be reinventing …

The More Things Change…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 30, 2025

As we wrap up our month-long focus on Purposeful Parenting, I want to leave you with a personal reflection—a story I’ve shared before, but one …

Being a Dad Today!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 11, 2025

As a life coach that coaches male attorneys – and the mom of a “Dad” – I’ve seen that being a Dad today is a …

Is FEAR Blocking Your Awesome Future Today?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, May 13, 2025

When we think of prevention, we often imagine physical health: checkups vaccines more water less food more workouts But prevention goes far beyond the physical …

Mental Health: Messages Written in the Sand

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, May 05, 2025

By Izaskun Cruz Nuñez, LMFT We often think of mental health challenges as signs that something has gone wrong, a punishment, a flaw, or a …

Prevention Now for a Better Future…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 23, 2025

We often hear about preventive measures related to physical health. Preventive medicine aims to prevent diseases or reduce the severity of their impact. We don’t …

🌟🛣️Where We’ve Been, Where We’re Headed…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, December 31, 2024

As the calendar turns to a new year, there’s a natural pause—a moment to breathe, reflect, and reset. The past year holds stories of triumph, …

Unlocking Your Best Self

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 11, 2024

By Cristina Ferreira, RMHCI, RMFTI, NCC Self-improvement is one of those words that can sound a bit overwhelming. Still, at its core, it’s all about making …

Purposeful Parenting is Relational Parenting

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 31, 2024

By Bianca Gabay, National Certified Counselor The funny thing about parenting is that, despite all good intentions, a clear plan, and the surplus of resources …

Life is a Roller Coaster

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, February 13, 2024

In a few days, I will turn 50. Many people have been asking me how it feels to turn the big 5-0; honestly, I’m not …

2024 – Open to Change BUT Do You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, January 02, 2024

Whether 2024 slid in or came in with a bang, with the New Year we have a New Journey. We have a chance to repeat …

Jumping Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 23, 2023

By Jeni Kennedy, Certified Life Coach With the summer sun fading, the sound of pencils sharpening, backpacks zipping, and the sounds of school bells ringing; …

The Importance of Self-Care for Parents

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 12, 2023

Parenting is one of life’s greatest joys; however, it is very demanding and exhausting.  The moment you become a parent, your focus turns to take …

Men and Life Balance

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 07, 2023

As I was sitting in front of the computer, not sure what to write about on Men’s Health, I received this picture from my son.  …

Coach Thought of the Week: Branding Your Identity

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, April 24, 2023

Your Branding is Your Identity When we think “branding” most of us think businesses and corporations. My definition of branding is when businesses and corporations …

Mindfulness and Personal Growth

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, March 16, 2023

By Maria Silvia Paoli, Certified Life Coach Mindfulness is defined as “a basic human ability to be fully present, in a state of awareness and …

Less Electronics, More Mindfulness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, February 28, 2023

It’s Friday night.  You’re out to dinner with your family: a ritual you look forward to throughout the week.  Although you’re all together, you feel …

Coach Thought of the Week: Comparing

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, January 16, 2023

I love many of Dr. Seuss’ quotes, but my very favorite is: Today you are You, that is truer than true. There is no one …

Coach Thought of the Week: Getting Out of Your Own Way

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 21, 2022

Those who know me, know I love tennis! Earlier this year, I was coaching with a tennis pro when I decided I didn’t want to …

Coach Thought of the Week: Belief

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 07, 2022

If you believe in yourself, anything is possible! This is one of the positive affirmations circling in social media today. Yes, if we believe in …

Coach Thought of the Week: It’s Optional

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, September 19, 2022

We believe we HAVE to do this or that or SHOULD. But the truth is we can choose to NOT do so. We ALWAYS have …

Coach Thought of the Week: More on Boundaries

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, September 12, 2022

I have written on boundaries before, but this past week it has been a recurring theme for all my clients, so I thought it would …

College Bound Reflection

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 17, 2022

Remind yourself: A Reflection on Sending Your Teen Off to College August is here and the reality that your children are heading off to college …

“Is there anything more to life?” The Common Question

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 22, 2022

I am so happy to write this for Men’s Health Awareness. In my sessions with men, I have found many of them reach the point …

Coach Thought of the Week: Therapy v. Coaching

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, May 30, 2022

“Therapists are archeologists that dig into our past to help us understand the present; Coaches are architects that help us build our future once we …

Mindful Moments

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 01, 2022

Here is a simple script for mindful moments. Let’s break it down. Notice your thoughts. “I’m sitting on a soft, blue chair. I like this …

Coach Thought of the Week: Self-Labeling

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, February 21, 2022

As humans, we label ourselves because it’s easier for our brain when we categorize and put things into buckets.  Sometimes these labels inspire us.  But …

What is Love?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 16, 2022

Love doesn’t start with loving others before us. It begins with loving ourselves first, to know how to love another. We create a strong foundation …

Coach Thought of the Week: Doing the Uncomfortable

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, February 14, 2022

Last week I watched my 2-year-old grandson, James, shooting hoops into his Little Tikes basketball hoop repeatedly as he missed over and over again. His …

Moving Forward in the New Year

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 26, 2022

New Year, New Me, right? Or is it a New Year, Old Me? Depending on your journey, these questions can feel different because it gives …

Holidays and Family

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 22, 2021

The holidays are the perfect time to reflect on our relationships, establish goals for connecting with our family, and set the groundwork for those relationships …

Self Reflection

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 15, 2021

Self-Reflection might sound easy to do, but it’s the most challenging thing we can do. It’s hard to focus on our thoughts and feelings about …

Boundaries

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, November 16, 2021

  Creating boundaries – or not creating them. There is no right or wrong answer.  We’re all different.  The question is: Do we need to …

My Work Anniversary Story

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 10, 2021

Ten years ago this month, I was lucky enough to start working at Coral Gables Counseling Center (CGCC) — and I’ve never looked back. I …

Should we blame weight gain on menopause?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 20, 2021

By Alejandra Boker, MBA, RD, IFNCP Women’s health is multifaceted. But one of the main issues consistently brought up by many women is the struggle …

Let’s talk about gut health. Sort of. 

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 06, 2021

Trust your gut. I love this phrase, but some women take it too far in one direction or the other. I’ve had some patients “trust …

Motivation

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 15, 2021

Motivation is Bullsh*t. Bold statement, I know, but stay with me for a second. Telling ourselves that the reason for not doing things is lack …

Summer is Over. Now What?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 25, 2021

Summer is over. Well, at least Summer, as in those few months during which “the Purge” happens because the children :coughs: terrors are set loose …

Normalizing Back to School Anxiety

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 18, 2021

BACK TO SCHOOL *cue instant anxiety* Whether you’re 5, 12, 18, or 24 years old, that week before school starts always makes most of us …

Deciding to Go Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 11, 2021

Most of us know what back to school means. Some of us went back to school as kids. Some of us had kids that went …

Going Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 04, 2021

Summer is coming to an end. School is right around the corner, as students will be going back to in-person learning. This past year school …

What I Do To Help My Kids Behave

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 28, 2021

Our kids’ behavior is the difference between a great day and a “kill me now” day. It can be overwhelming when your kids misbehave more …

Parenting

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 21, 2021

By Katheryne Puentes, LMHC Parenting is NOT an easy job. Being a parent involves 100% attention to how they interact with their children and their …

Purposeful Parenting from an Empty Nester

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 14, 2021

As a parent of three 30+-year-olds, I want to offer that parenting never ends. Parents of newborns and toddlers are rolling their eyes right about …

Purposeful Parenting as a New Mom

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 07, 2021

When I learned this month’s blog theme is “Purposeful Parenting,” I thought I could offer a slightly unique perspective: that of a first-time newborn parent. …

Men…Beautiful, Beautiful Men!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 09, 2021

I celebrate you. I celebrate all the men in the world.  Men who are loyal, kind, and true. Men who have protected us and loved …

Let’s talk about Low-T, but really, let’s talk about it.

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 02, 2021

Low testosterone is one of the most overlooked causes of depression and other serious mood disorders in males. So much so that when I see …

Who do I think I’m talking to like that? ME?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 12, 2021

Self-talk is the dialogue inside your head. It is your inner voice that tells you what you can and cannot do. It is your inner …

Dealing With Client Termination in Therapy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 05, 2021

I had the opportunity to advise a colleague on how to terminate therapy for one of her clients. This particular case was sensitive and complex. …

Living in the Present for a Better Future

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 28, 2021

Eli Bravo https://www.linkedin.com/in/elibravooficial/ As if it was a miracle pill or a magic potion, it is common in books, webinars, and social media posts the …

Don’t Get in Your Own Way of Happiness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, April 20, 2021

6:30 AM. I am sitting in front of the candle and trying to let the thoughts pass so I can be in the present moment. …

Umbrella of Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 14, 2021

What comes to mind when you think of health? For most, it’s the yearly visit to your primary doctor, gynecologist, or dentist. What comes to …

Notes to Self: Two Books Sounding Off Loudly

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 24, 2021

By Lucia Fernandez, Director, LMFT and Natalie Ortega, Attorney and Teacher   My friend, Natalie Ortega, and I have had many conversations on spirituality. She …

Mindfulness Aspirations?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 17, 2021

Do you aspire to be “mindful” tangibly and practically? Ask yourself these four questions.  It will give you a well-grounded approach to your day: 1) …

Mindful Pause

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 10, 2021

Creating an awareness of the present moment is one of the basic principles of mindfulness and mindful living. We tend to live our lives and …

How To Make That Special Someone, Fall In Love With You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 24, 2021

No, I’m not talking about making your hot co-worker or classmate fall in love with you. I’m talking about making the MOST special person in …

Self Love

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 17, 2021

BY: MERIEM OUCHAKA, LMHC Self-love is often overlooked. We assume it’s a given. Do you love, like, and respect yourself? What is the meaning of …

Loving Me=Loving You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 10, 2021

Almost a year into the pandemic and those of us who are healthy and have survived it, are so very blessed. So many have passed …

Mind, Body and Spirit

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 03, 2021

Many times I discuss with clients developing a self-care routine.  You would be surprised how many people have difficulty with this. When describing themselves or …

Teens and 20s – A Time for Self-Improvement

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 27, 2021

I’ve always liked working with the younger population (teens and 20s), but never quite knew why. Maybe it’s because I can relate to them pretty …

We the People

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 20, 2021

Today we come together as it’s been done since the first inauguration when President George Washington took the first oath in April 1789.  Even after …

No Whining

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 06, 2021

Why no whining? These times have been sad, scary, hard, and uncertain. They’ve been quiet and loud and new and somehow…same ‘ole same ‘ole. Certainly, …

Auld Lang Syne (Times Gone By)

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, December 31, 2020

I love submitting our last blog of the year. If I have not yet done so, it forces me to stop and reflect. Before I …

The Last Month of 2020

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, December 04, 2020

2020 is the year that will be known as the year of the Pandemic and THE election. A year of the unknown. A year of …

Gratitude Done Right – More Than a Feeling

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 25, 2020

Here we are at the end of “Gratitude Month” as November has come to be observed when being grateful is all anyone seems to be …

Random Acts of Kindness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 18, 2020

November is easily one of my favorite months of the year. I love that it’s sandwiched between Halloween and Christmas (celebrated in my family). It …

Don’t Downplay Your Strengths: Here Are 5 Reasons Why

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 11, 2020

Gratitude and self-appreciation are not qualities that come naturally to the majority of us. In therapy, we often recommend incorporating a gratitude practice into a …

Healer Heal Thyself

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 04, 2020

As a Mental Health Counselor, I’m often on the receiving end of questions such as, “How do you listen to people’s problems all day and …

Psychiatrist Unfiltered: 5 Things Learned Deleting Social Media

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 02, 2020

I am a millennial psychiatrist. I grew up in the era of smartphones filled with apps that have helped me stay connected all hours of …

2020 Reflection of a Breast Cancer Survivor

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 21, 2020

This is the only time of year I pause to reflect on my diagnosis 3 years ago – Invasive Ductal Carcinoma – or breast cancer.  …

Working with Emotional Support Animals

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 07, 2020

A few years ago I treated a client with Complex PTSD. She had suffered for the majority of her childhood from physical, psychological, and emotional …

10 Practical Ways to Stay Motivated on Your Self-Improvement Journey

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, September 29, 2020

I consider myself to be an eternally active learner and a self-improvement/personal growth enthusiast. It’s important to be open to constant learning about yourself, others, …

Don’t Leave “Self” Out of Self-Improvement

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 23, 2020

When you hear “self-improvement,” what comes to mind?  Self-improvement can mean so many different things for each of us.  One thing all definitions should have in common is “the …

Rosh Hashana 2020

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, September 18, 2020

To me, September has always marked the beginning of a new year, even more so than January. Maybe it’s because it signals the end of …

Self-Improvement and Homelessness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 16, 2020

By Remy Gordon, LCSW What does self-improvement mean to you? By definition, self-improvement is “the improvement of one’s knowledge, status, or character by one’s own efforts”. …

You Need To Calm Down. You’re Being Too Loud

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 09, 2020

Many of us have anxiety levels that are higher than usual on any given day in 2020. Things aren’t where we’d want them to be. …

Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 26, 2020

By Remy Gordon, LCSW How do we prepare to return back to school when we aren’t really going back to the classroom physically? We are …

Round Two of Virtual Learning

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 12, 2020

The end of summer is here and we are heading into round two of virtual learning. The adjustment of virtual learning has been difficult for …

Back to School in a Pandemic

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 05, 2020

Back to school. A phrase, I’m sure, makes almost every parent shudder these days. These last few weeks, or better yet, months, have been a …

Clarity Vision ??

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 29, 2020

2020 – the year of Clarity and Vision…but really? On January 1, 2020, I declared my word of the year: Purpose. Everything I was doing …

Parenting Style From My House to Yours

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 22, 2020

How many of us struggle to be perfect parents?  There are so many levels of fear and uncertainty when it comes to raising little humans.  …

Teaching Respect to Children

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 15, 2020

It seems that every time we turn on the TV or listen to the news, all we hear is negative activities going on in the …

Infant Mental Health – It Starts on Day 1

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 01, 2020

Erika Fernandez De Castro A little over a year ago, I attended a training on the topic of Infant Mental Health. Prior to the training, …

Don’t Worry Be Happy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 24, 2020

As the world begins to move into this “new normal” post-COVID 19 quarantine world – I cannot help but wonder what our lives and realities …

Creating Certainty in Uncertain Times

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 17, 2020

The world is a very uncertain place right now. There is less predictability about basic life issues such as employment, education, food, and shelter. It is a …

Creating Goals and the Fear of Falling Down

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 10, 2020

I remember almost four years ago, I was making the decision on leaving an agency that I was involved with for over 15-years. I had …

Modern Man’s – Man

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 03, 2020

I’m a guy’s guy. A Modern Man’s – Man. Rough around the edges, not afraid to get dirty, a fan of grit, and hard work. …

A Review on Mental Health Awareness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 27, 2020

Congratulations! You made it to the end of May, AKA Mental Health Awareness Month. By now I’m sure you’ve been inundated with plenty of words …

Big Law Summer Programs

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, May 15, 2020

Summer is approaching and with it, Big Law would have been flooded with law students as the firms’ summer programs would have started. Students would …

Silencing Negative Bias – Gaining Positive Outlook

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 13, 2020

  When thinking about mental health, many automatically think of the negative aspects of mental health. The association of “mental health” with serious mental health …

I’m Fine, It’s Fine, This is Fine…But Do You Know a Good Therapist?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 06, 2020

Can you believe it? It’s finally May. We have all been through a lot with the recent COVID-19 situation. One of the topics in the …

Joy!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 15, 2020

Our current situation is tough. There is suffering, fear, uncertainty and so many challenging situations for a lot of people. So, with all that, are …

Dreaming During the Time of Covid

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, April 13, 2020

Yes, we’re in the middle of a pandemic. Yes, we’re now teachers in addition to parents. Yes, we’re in confined quarters. Yes, we’re unemployed. Yes, …

How to Prevent Anxiety in the Time of Corona

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 08, 2020

I woke up this morning feeling much better than I did yesterday. I felt a new sense of relief and control. These feelings elude me …

Prevention Mental Health for a Better Future

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 01, 2020

I just started with a new therapist. I’m not in crisis. I’m high functioning and successful (depending on who you ask). But I like to …

Tips on Reducing Anxiety

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, March 19, 2020

These are strange times. The uncertainty is creating stress and fear. For some, there are many strong reactions and emotions. If this is you, here …

Making Lemonade out of Lemons

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 18, 2020

I was thinking today of how many times I’ve wanted to have some time to just be home: to clean out my closets, organize my …

Talking to Your Child About COVID

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 17, 2020

We live in a time where our children are more exposed to information channels than ever before. With the anxiety and panic created by the …

A Letter From Our Director

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, March 16, 2020

Let’s be smart Let’s be mindful Let’s be calm. Breathe. As we navigate through these unchartered waters with COVID-19, our anxiety is escalating and the …

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