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Are You Actually Living? Or Simply Going Through the Motions?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, March 27, 2026

By Cristina Ferreira, LMHC, MFT, NCC In a world that constantly feels like it’s pulling us into a million different directions and often focused on …

What is self-love?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 18, 2026

Self-love is defined as: regard for ones own wellbeing and happiness. What else? Self-love is taking care of your body. Self-love is getting your yearly …

From Chaos to Connection: A 5-Minute December Reflection on the People You Love

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 03, 2025

December is one of the busiest times of the year. End of the year, family commitments, school activities for kids, concerts, Christmas bazaars, holiday preparations, …

Self-Improvement Without Self-Bullying: The Desire → Motivation → Design Loop

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 24, 2025

If you’ve ever set a goal, sworn you’d stick to it, and then quietly ghosted yourself two weeks later, welcome to being human. Most of …

🧠🏃‍♀️✨ Caring Today for Your Mind, Body, and Spirit!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, September 15, 2025

By Elizabeth Schaul, MHC Intern When you hear the phrase self-care, what comes to mind? Many people picture spa days, vacations, or special treats. While those …

Gratefulness: A Pathway to Joy and Stronger Relationships

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 18, 2024

By Angelica Cruz-Serrano, RMFTI Gratefulness is often considered a simple act, but its impact on our lives can be profound. Practicing gratitude can shift our …

Are you grateful for the things you DON’T have?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 11, 2024

Do you have a toothache right now? No? Good. Be thankful for that! This is a form of gratitude meditation. Pausing to appreciate the absence …

Is Women’s Health Different? Should it Be?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 16, 2024

Did you know that once upon a time, if a woman exhibited any emotional distress, they would remove her “hysteria” by performing a “hysterectomy”? (Hence …

💥Top Priority: Your Personal Health Scan!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, October 08, 2024

In October, I always pause and take inventory of how I’ve been doing with my health during the year.  As a breast cancer survivor, for …

Creating a Self-Care Routine that Works for You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 18, 2024

By: Natalie Peña, IMHC In today’s fast-paced world, balancing the demands of work, family, and daily life can often leave self-care feeling like an afterthought. …

Unlocking Your Best Self

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 11, 2024

By Cristina Ferreira, RMHCI, RMFTI, NCC Self-improvement is one of those words that can sound a bit overwhelming. Still, at its core, it’s all about making …

Demystifying Hypnosis in Therapy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, September 02, 2024

Entering a state of trance that’s just right for you. Hypnosis has been around for the past 1,000 years give or take and varies wildly …

Making Friends in High School and Taking Care of Your Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 07, 2024

As we all know, school starts soon, and many parents across the country are already buying school supplies and uniforms and preparing their kids for …

Social Media and Heading Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 07, 2024

As our kids head back to school, they’re not just lugging backpacks, books, laptops/ipads– they’re also carrying the weight of social media. Strange how social …

Keeping Your Mental Health in Check

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 10, 2024

In the realm of self-improvement, physical health often is the focus. We hit the gym, watch what we eat, and schedule check-ups to keep our …

Life is a Roller Coaster

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, February 13, 2024

In a few days, I will turn 50. Many people have been asking me how it feels to turn the big 5-0; honestly, I’m not …

True Self-Love

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 07, 2024

Yes, self love is gratitude journals, and bubble baths…face masks and lazy Saturdays. It’s also treat yourself days and hanging with the guys/gals. But let’s …

Embrace Your 2024 Journey

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 10, 2024

By Jean Crawford, Certified Life Coach Ah, the new year – sparkly confetti, a time for fresh beginnings, a fresh canvas, and the undeniable pressure …

2024 – Open to Change BUT Do You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, January 02, 2024

Whether 2024 slid in or came in with a bang, with the New Year we have a New Journey. We have a chance to repeat …

Holidays, Family and Tradition

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 20, 2023

The holidays, the end of the calendar year, this all brings on a feeling of reflection. Looking back, taking stock. The rituals of wrapping up …

Finding Gratefulness by Breaking Free of the Work-Life Balance Trap

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 01, 2023

To stand in gratefulness it’s important to first be present. But what happens if life gets in the way of us being present? What happens …

What is Childhood Emotional Neglect?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 19, 2023

By Alli Griffiths, Mental Health Counselor, Practicum First, emotional neglect is not emotional abuse. Abuse intends to harm whereas emotional neglect is usually unintentional. Oftentimes, …

Redefining Masculinity: Male Emotional Advocacy Takes Center Stage

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 28, 2023

In a world where societal expectations have traditionally dictated that men must be strong, stoic, and unemotional, there is a growing movement that seeks to …

Men’s Health and Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 14, 2023

By Angela Cruz Serrano, MFT and MHC Intern Mental health is a topic that has been receiving increased attention in recent years. While the conversation …

Forced to Mature – Growing up with an ADHD sibling

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 31, 2023

By: High School Student – her college essay We all go through the natural and unavoidable process of growing up. However, for some of us, …

Eating to Support Your Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 24, 2023

By Alli Griffiths, Mental Health Counselor, Practicum You have probably heard the age-old adage, ‘you are what you eat.’ This phrase used to annoy me. …

Autism Awareness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 26, 2023

By Christian Mendez, Board-Certified Behavior Analyst Just last month the Centers for Disease Control (CDC) updated the incidence of autism spectrum disorder (ASD) in 8-year-old children …

Living Mindfully Today

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 07, 2023

By Angela Cruz Serrano, MFT and MHC Intern We are always thinking about our next move, our next chapter in life, our next everything and …

How to Manage Holiday Stress

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 07, 2022

By: Alli Griffiths, MHC Intern Does this time of year stress you out? If so, you are not alone. Pause. Take a moment. Close your …

Coach Thought of the Week: Realistic Expectations

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, December 05, 2022

One of the reasons for stress and overwhelm comes from trying to keep up with our client’s deadlines. A client calls us wanting something by …

Coach Thought of the Week: Creating Your Personal Brand – Not Just for the Business Owner

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 28, 2022

When a client comes in for career coaching, they’re always a little surprised when I ask them what their personal brand is. Yes – branding …

Coach Thought of the Week: Obstacles

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Sunday, July 24, 2022

Life is life. There will be projects we work on that go smoothly to completion. And there will be projects we work on where we …

“Is there anything more to life?” The Common Question

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 22, 2022

I am so happy to write this for Men’s Health Awareness. In my sessions with men, I have found many of them reach the point …

Are You Tired of Having the Relationshits…???

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 15, 2022

There are various benefits for men from being in a healthy relationship. Their well-being is positively influenced by healthy relationships not just emotionally, but physically …

Coach Thought of the Week: Therapy v. Coaching

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, May 30, 2022

“Therapists are archeologists that dig into our past to help us understand the present; Coaches are architects that help us build our future once we …

Let’s Talk About Anxiety

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 04, 2022

The most commonly diagnosed mental health disorder in the U.S. is anxiety; and a close second is depression. Both disorders are misunderstood not only by …

Coach Thought of the Week: Time

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, April 26, 2022

“I don’t have enough hours in a day!” “I don’t have time!” “I’m too busy!” “I have too much work!” “I’m always so busy!” “I …

Mindful Moments

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 01, 2022

Here is a simple script for mindful moments. Let’s break it down. Notice your thoughts. “I’m sitting on a soft, blue chair. I like this …

Coach Thought of the Week: Doing the Uncomfortable

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, February 14, 2022

Last week I watched my 2-year-old grandson, James, shooting hoops into his Little Tikes basketball hoop repeatedly as he missed over and over again. His …

Reflecting on Groundhog Day

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 09, 2022

Groundhog Day last week reminded me how as adults, we can fall into a life that feels repetitive.  We wake up, go through our routines, …

Moving Forward in the New Year

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 26, 2022

New Year, New Me, right? Or is it a New Year, Old Me? Depending on your journey, these questions can feel different because it gives …

Journey into 2022

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 05, 2022

With the start of a New Year, many of us take the time to set goals and resolutions on how we can be better and …

Self Reflection

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 15, 2021

Self-Reflection might sound easy to do, but it’s the most challenging thing we can do. It’s hard to focus on our thoughts and feelings about …

Family and Holidays

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, December 01, 2021

By Alejandra Boker, MBA, RD, IFNCP Let’s be honest, the two things that people enjoy most during the holidays are spending time with family and eating …

My Work Anniversary Story

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 10, 2021

Ten years ago this month, I was lucky enough to start working at Coral Gables Counseling Center (CGCC) — and I’ve never looked back. I …

Reflection and Gratitude

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 03, 2021

The month of November is traditionally a time of Thanksgiving. During this time, we often focus on reflection and gratitude. Recognizing and reflecting on gratitude …

Should we blame weight gain on menopause?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 20, 2021

By Alejandra Boker, MBA, RD, IFNCP Women’s health is multifaceted. But one of the main issues consistently brought up by many women is the struggle …

In loving me.

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 13, 2021

The other day I was really looking at myself in the mirror while I was getting dressed.  I was looking at my body and scars …

Let’s talk about gut health. Sort of. 

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 06, 2021

Trust your gut. I love this phrase, but some women take it too far in one direction or the other. I’ve had some patients “trust …

You’re Not Broken

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 22, 2021

Self-improvement. When I talk about this idea (a multi-million dollar industry of how to do and be better), I make sure others understand they are …

Motivation

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 15, 2021

Motivation is Bullsh*t. Bold statement, I know, but stay with me for a second. Telling ourselves that the reason for not doing things is lack …

Summer is Over. Now What?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 25, 2021

Summer is over. Well, at least Summer, as in those few months during which “the Purge” happens because the children :coughs: terrors are set loose …

Deciding to Go Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 11, 2021

Most of us know what back to school means. Some of us went back to school as kids. Some of us had kids that went …

Going Back to School

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, August 04, 2021

Summer is coming to an end. School is right around the corner, as students will be going back to in-person learning. This past year school …

What I Do To Help My Kids Behave

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 28, 2021

Our kids’ behavior is the difference between a great day and a “kill me now” day. It can be overwhelming when your kids misbehave more …

Parenting

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 21, 2021

By Katheryne Puentes, LMHC Parenting is NOT an easy job. Being a parent involves 100% attention to how they interact with their children and their …

Purposeful Parenting from an Empty Nester

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 14, 2021

As a parent of three 30+-year-olds, I want to offer that parenting never ends. Parents of newborns and toddlers are rolling their eyes right about …

Men…Beautiful, Beautiful Men!

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 09, 2021

I celebrate you. I celebrate all the men in the world.  Men who are loyal, kind, and true. Men who have protected us and loved …

Let’s talk about Low-T, but really, let’s talk about it.

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 02, 2021

Low testosterone is one of the most overlooked causes of depression and other serious mood disorders in males. So much so that when I see …

Who do I think I’m talking to like that? ME?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 12, 2021

Self-talk is the dialogue inside your head. It is your inner voice that tells you what you can and cannot do. It is your inner …

Dealing With Client Termination in Therapy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 05, 2021

I had the opportunity to advise a colleague on how to terminate therapy for one of her clients. This particular case was sensitive and complex. …

Living in the Present for a Better Future

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 28, 2021

Eli Bravo https://www.linkedin.com/in/elibravooficial/ As if it was a miracle pill or a magic potion, it is common in books, webinars, and social media posts the …

Don’t Get in Your Own Way of Happiness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, April 20, 2021

6:30 AM. I am sitting in front of the candle and trying to let the thoughts pass so I can be in the present moment. …

Umbrella of Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 14, 2021

What comes to mind when you think of health? For most, it’s the yearly visit to your primary doctor, gynecologist, or dentist. What comes to …

Notes to Self: Two Books Sounding Off Loudly

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 24, 2021

By Lucia Fernandez, Director, LMFT and Natalie Ortega, Attorney and Teacher   My friend, Natalie Ortega, and I have had many conversations on spirituality. She …

Mindful Pause

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 10, 2021

Creating an awareness of the present moment is one of the basic principles of mindfulness and mindful living. We tend to live our lives and …

Self Love

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 17, 2021

BY: MERIEM OUCHAKA, LMHC Self-love is often overlooked. We assume it’s a given. Do you love, like, and respect yourself? What is the meaning of …

Loving Me=Loving You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 10, 2021

Almost a year into the pandemic and those of us who are healthy and have survived it, are so very blessed. So many have passed …

Mind, Body and Spirit

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 03, 2021

Many times I discuss with clients developing a self-care routine.  You would be surprised how many people have difficulty with this. When describing themselves or …

New Year New You

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 13, 2021

2020 was a year like no other. Many things happened in 2020. For some, it brought sorrow and loss – disappointment and sadness. For others, …

No Whining

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, January 06, 2021

Why no whining? These times have been sad, scary, hard, and uncertain. They’ve been quiet and loud and new and somehow…same ‘ole same ‘ole. Certainly, …

Auld Lang Syne (Times Gone By)

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, December 31, 2020

I love submitting our last blog of the year. If I have not yet done so, it forces me to stop and reflect. Before I …

The Last Month of 2020

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, December 04, 2020

2020 is the year that will be known as the year of the Pandemic and THE election. A year of the unknown. A year of …

Don’t Downplay Your Strengths: Here Are 5 Reasons Why

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 11, 2020

Gratitude and self-appreciation are not qualities that come naturally to the majority of us. In therapy, we often recommend incorporating a gratitude practice into a …

Healer Heal Thyself

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, November 04, 2020

As a Mental Health Counselor, I’m often on the receiving end of questions such as, “How do you listen to people’s problems all day and …

Psychiatrist Unfiltered: 5 Things Learned Deleting Social Media

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, November 02, 2020

I am a millennial psychiatrist. I grew up in the era of smartphones filled with apps that have helped me stay connected all hours of …

The Health Benefits of Sex

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 28, 2020

So, this month’s topic is women’s health. Naturally, I thought, what better way to be able to identify easy health-improving habits for women while still …

2020 Reflection of a Breast Cancer Survivor

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 21, 2020

This is the only time of year I pause to reflect on my diagnosis 3 years ago – Invasive Ductal Carcinoma – or breast cancer.  …

Add This To Your Resume

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, October 14, 2020

I overheard a teacher say to my daughter on virtual school, “Kids, have your moms upload that later.” Moms. Not parents. Not dads or caretakers. …

Don’t Leave “Self” Out of Self-Improvement

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 23, 2020

When you hear “self-improvement,” what comes to mind?  Self-improvement can mean so many different things for each of us.  One thing all definitions should have in common is “the …

Rosh Hashana 2020

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Friday, September 18, 2020

To me, September has always marked the beginning of a new year, even more so than January. Maybe it’s because it signals the end of …

Self-Improvement and Homelessness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 16, 2020

By Remy Gordon, LCSW What does self-improvement mean to you? By definition, self-improvement is “the improvement of one’s knowledge, status, or character by one’s own efforts”. …

You Need To Calm Down. You’re Being Too Loud

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 09, 2020

Many of us have anxiety levels that are higher than usual on any given day in 2020. Things aren’t where we’d want them to be. …

Self-Improvement and Mental Health

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, September 02, 2020

I have to admit, I love memes and get a lot of enjoyment from them. Pro-therapy memes? Even better! (By the way, I love that …

Clarity Vision ??

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 29, 2020

2020 – the year of Clarity and Vision…but really? On January 1, 2020, I declared my word of the year: Purpose. Everything I was doing …

Parenting Style From My House to Yours

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 22, 2020

How many of us struggle to be perfect parents?  There are so many levels of fear and uncertainty when it comes to raising little humans.  …

Creating Certainty in Uncertain Times

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, June 17, 2020

The world is a very uncertain place right now. There is less predictability about basic life issues such as employment, education, food, and shelter. It is a …

A Review on Mental Health Awareness

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 27, 2020

Congratulations! You made it to the end of May, AKA Mental Health Awareness Month. By now I’m sure you’ve been inundated with plenty of words …

Silencing Negative Bias – Gaining Positive Outlook

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 13, 2020

  When thinking about mental health, many automatically think of the negative aspects of mental health. The association of “mental health” with serious mental health …

I’m Fine, It’s Fine, This is Fine…But Do You Know a Good Therapist?

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, May 06, 2020

Can you believe it? It’s finally May. We have all been through a lot with the recent COVID-19 situation. One of the topics in the …

Dreaming During the Time of Covid

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Monday, April 13, 2020

Yes, we’re in the middle of a pandemic. Yes, we’re now teachers in addition to parents. Yes, we’re in confined quarters. Yes, we’re unemployed. Yes, …

How to Prevent Anxiety in the Time of Corona

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 08, 2020

I woke up this morning feeling much better than I did yesterday. I felt a new sense of relief and control. These feelings elude me …

Prevention Mental Health for a Better Future

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, April 01, 2020

I just started with a new therapist. I’m not in crisis. I’m high functioning and successful (depending on who you ask). But I like to …

Tips on Reducing Anxiety

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, March 19, 2020

These are strange times. The uncertainty is creating stress and fear. For some, there are many strong reactions and emotions. If this is you, here …

Making Lemonade out of Lemons

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 18, 2020

I was thinking today of how many times I’ve wanted to have some time to just be home: to clean out my closets, organize my …

Talking to Your Child About COVID

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Tuesday, March 17, 2020

We live in a time where our children are more exposed to information channels than ever before. With the anxiety and panic created by the …

Living mindfully is

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, March 11, 2020

Life and Wellness Coach es, living mindfully is about being present with others Yes, living mindfully is about self care Yes, living mindfully is about …

You’re being too hard on yourself

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 19, 2020

You’re being too hard on yourself. So many of us do it. We think it keeps us focused on self improvement. But it ends up …

Loving Ain’t Easy

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, February 05, 2020

Licensed Mental Health Counselor With Valentine’s Day coming up and heart garlands decorating the office, I can’t help but reflect on love and relationships. I …

Setting Intentions for a New Year

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Thursday, January 30, 2020

Divorce Coach All of a sudden, I wake up, and here we are, living in the year 2020. Wow. I don’t know why but it …

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