The More Things Change…

Coral Gables Counseling Center - Wednesday, July 30, 2025
By Emy Fernandez, MBA, Life Coach

As we wrap up our month-long focus on Purposeful Parenting, I want to leave you with a personal reflection—a story I’ve shared before, but one that still rings true for me.

Throughout the month, we’ve had the privilege of hearing from parents at various stages of the journey.  And I realized that the more things change – the more they stay the same.

Anastasiya, a mom of three, shared how she continues to parent with intention, even on the days she’s running on empty.

Ana, a new mother to a two-year-old, gave us insight into navigating the early years with grace and curiosity.

Ricardo offered perspective on adapting parenting styles to meet the needs of both introverted and extroverted children.

And Carolina, parenting a 17-year-old, spoke beautifully about the delicate balance of letting go while still holding on.

picture of author with family

Today, I speak to you as a mother of three adult children—and a grandmother to four beautiful grandchildren. Reading these stories, I was struck by a simple truth: the seasons may change, but the heart of parenting remains the same.

I still worry about my adult children. I still want to protect, guide, and support them. But I’ve learned that parenting, especially in the later seasons, is about stepping back – while standing at the edge of their lives, ready to step in only when they need me.

That, too, is purposeful parenting.

P.S. If you missed our other blogs referenced here, following are the links: 
https://www.coralgablescounseling.com/parenting-with-purpose-letting-go-while-holding-on/

https://www.coralgablescounseling.com/no-instructions-just-love-parenting-when-youre-tired/

https://www.coralgablescounseling.com/introvert-extrovert-or-both-understanding-your-child/

https://www.coralgablescounseling.com/parenting-panic-relax-youve-got-this/

QUOTE OF THE WEEK

“I want to offer that parenting never ends, it’s just different.”
Emy Fernandez, Certified Life Coach

AUTHOR WITH FAMILY